Planning Our First Camping Adventure
A family of three sits outside of their orange tent, on a wooden platform, in the woods
It’s no small task planning and prepping for your first camping trip with a toddler. I outlined my packing list must-haves already, but beyond packing, a lot went into the decisions I made along the way. Luckily, with the help of Hipcamp I was able to source out the perfect campsite that checked all of our boxes:
Not too far of a drive (with traffic it was 3.5 hours)
Quiet campsite - we didn’t want a lot of loud campers nearby who might keep T up late
Remote enough, but within a quick drive of hotel/motel options in case of inclement weather
Something with positive reviews
Then I used AllTrails to find nearby hiking trails that would be do-able with a toddler who does NOT want to be carried, but also can’t walk too far or manage too difficult of terrain. Up in New Hampshire, where we were, there are a ton of trails and options. I chose the Big Pines Natural Area and a 2.4 mile loop that had some hills, a river with an awesome bridge, some small streams and plenty of gorgeous scenery. The hike was great for T, and at the end we all took a dip in the refreshing mountain stream.
Once I had our itinerary, and our campsite details all ironed out, I needed to ensure we had all of the necessary equipment and everything a toddler might need. So I visited REI because I’m in love with REI, and their staff was able to help me consider things that I might be missing.
All that planning made for a really positive first experience for us all. We ripped off the bandaid, which I was both excited and incredibly nervous about, and enjoyed it fully. T thought the tent was so fun, especially when he woke up in the morning and saw us both sleeping next to him. What a thrill! I hope to get in one more overnight trip before it gets too cold up here. Admittedly, the only part of our trip that was a little annoying was that it was 95 degrees. The tent was so hot, and we spent the whole trip sticky and gross. So a fall trip, when we need to bundle a bit, sounds perfect!
Until then, please enjoy pics from our trip!
What to Pack: Camping with a Toddler
A riverside campsite complete with a fire pit, folding chairs, and a tent
We just wrapped up our first family camping trip with my 18 month old in tow. The trip exceeded every expectation I had, in large part because my little guy is just very happy adventuring. But it also involved a lot of planning and preparation, ahead of time, to anticipate the many possible scenarios. I’ll get into the trip, overall, in another post, but first I wanted to focus on how we packed for our successful trip! To say that I am not as minimalist for camping as I am for the beach is an understatement.
If you’ve got the main gear, camping is a really inexpensive way to have a very rich vacation experience. That being said, even if you have to make some larger purchases upfront, the investment is worth it for your future trips. Our trip was just an overnight, and we were car camping, so had the luxury of packing more than we could carry. At some point, we’ll be brave enough for a backpacking trip with T, but for now, here are the items that proved to be key for our trip (bulleted list at the bottom of the article as well). Please keep in mind, I am not sponsored and do not receive anything at all from the companies I’ve linked. I’m just trying to make life easier for those of you reading the list.
The Staples: We opted for tent camping, so we obviously needed a tent, and sleeping bags. We also brought a folding chair for each of us. T used his Summer Infant folding chair, and Alex and I had a pair from REI. Anytime I go anywhere without power, I always bring an external battery which can be used to charge my phone or other products. I have one, that was given to me years ago, that is incredible. Can charge multiple devices all day long for at least 2 full days. It’s worth the investment.
Supplies for our Site: Our site, which we found on HipCamp, is primarily intended for RVs, so it was bare bones. It had a wooden platform for the tent, and a small fire pit. Not restrooms, no potable water, and no table. So we brought our own firewood, and a 7 gallon water drum with water from home, which we used for washing hands and dishes, cooking, and drinking. This water drum was awesome, it has a spout that can be turned around for easy use, which prevents too much waste. If we had been very conservative with the water, we could easily have used this for 2 nights (this does not include bathing).
Cooking and the Food: We felt that cooking over a fire could be a little risky with a curious toddler. It would be hard to keep him from trying to reach in and grab things. So we opted to buy this Eureka butane stove, which was amazing! Worked better than my stove at home, sadly. If I could do it again, I MIGHT buy the double-burner one instead, but this worked fine. We prepared marinated steak tips with grilled peppers, and corn on the cob for dinner. I also prepared berries, veggie sticks, and watermelon ahead of time. And snacks galore! Because snacks are how I entice my toddler to chill in once place, and keep his energy up on busy days! In the morning, we used the stove to boil water for our instant coffee, and our Backpacker’s Pantry freeze dried oatmeal breakfast. Overall, the food was great!
Toddler Necessities: I was trying to set up T’s sleeping arrangement to mimic his room at home, as much as possible, which is very dark and his sound machine is VERY loud. So I purchased the cordless, travel, version of his machine. The sound machine was nice and loud, but unfortunately the battery did not last all night. Which resulted in a 2 am wakeup! Luckily I had that external battery to charge it the rest of the night. I couldn’t do much about blacking out the tent, so it just took a little longer for him to fall asleep. In another season, when it gets dark earlier, this may not be an issue. I also packed our BabyBjorn travel crib, which fit nicely into our tent. In addition to these items, and the chair we brought for him, I also packed a play yard gate. I know that seems both excessive, and cruel, since the point of camping is to be free, but it was something I threw in last-minute because our site was on a river, and I didn’t want him running down to the river while we were preoccupied setting up the tent and cooking. We only used the play yard once, briefly. But it did the trick. He had a shovel, and a toy truck, and busied himself just fine. Lastly, because of the river, I brought a life jacket (we didn’t end up needing it) and some water shoes for T. I own Keens, and although you may find them goofy looking, they’re great. But I didn’t want to spend that much on toddler shoes, so I found these incredible knockoffs instead! T didn’t care that they were goofy, he loved them, and had the best time wading in the water without hurting his feet. And it goes without saying that I brought enough clothes for a week (because toddlers will be toddlers), diapers, wipes (which came in super handy for multiple purposes), and swim diapers.
Bugs Galore: We knew that we’d have a lot of bugs to deal with because it’s New England in the summer. Mostly, I was concerned with mosquitos and ticks. The flies, spiders, ants, and other crawly critters don’t bother me so much. So I did my research and ultimately landed on deet-free Picaridin spray (although there isn’t anything wrong with deet!), and a Thermacell Portable Mosquito Repeller. We went through 3 of the repellent mats, and one of the fuel cartridges. I also had some BuzzPatch mosquito stickers that I put on T’s back, and let him play with a bit. I came home with one mosquito bite, which I think I got on our hike the next day. So these items were insanely effective!
A bulleted list, to summarize:
Tent
Sleeping bags (and pillows because I’m not that tough)
Camping chairs, even a folding chair for T
External battery to charge phones and/or electronics like the sound machine
Logs, kindling, matches for the fire
A water drum with clean water for drinking, hand washing, dishwashing, and cooking
Eureka butane stove and extra fuel as needed
Food and snacks - we made steak tips with peppers and corn on the cob, which was super easy
Backpacker’s Pantry freeze dried foods are also very easy and yummy
Play yard gate this wasn’t a necessity and it took up a good amount of space, but came in handy when we couldn’t have our eyes and hands on our curious toddler
Life jacket, if you’re near water
Lots of extra clothes for the toddler